This also means having clarity on what you need from a relationship. Maybe you need to open up emotionally, a partner you vibe with sexually, or maybe you want a good travel buddy or all of the above. Regardless, don't be afraid to be honest about it—the only person you'd be hurting by covering that ish up is you.
To put it nicely, some people, guys especially, have a lot of kinks to work out in the maturity arena. If their a little lacking in relationship history, no worries I mean Duh—you were born in way different years, or in some cases, decades.
But expect to feel a new dynamic with your young date compared with the one you might experience with whom you usually go for. To get a better grasp on how mismatched you might be in this aspect, think about what the vibe would be like hanging out with his friend group. Does the idea make you cringe—because it'd feel like sophomore year of college? Remember that. Save FB Tweet More. Dating a younger man.
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By far the most pressing issue for me with this relationship was the Baby Chat. Another issue some older women with younger men or younger partners in general may face is friendship circles. I have a core group of friends and they mean a lot to me, so it therefore means a lot to me that my partner gets along with them.
You may find that the interests of your respective friendship groups differ. But if, say, he and his friends were still club rats or big on festivals, that would be fine - as long as I could happily compromise from time to time and enjoy those interests, too. This is a question for ANY new relationship, but I felt it was particularly pertinent given I was dating a year-old.
Basically - do you want something serious? Do they? Dating culture in is very, very complex and there are many relationships without labels or commitments. Just check in before you get too invested. Though you and your younger guy may be totally into each other, others might not be as supportive and open-minded. When you're able to ignore rather than internalize the possible disapproving looks or judgments from others, your relationship will be that much stronger.
While an older man may want to have children and settle down, a younger man might want to keep sowing his wild oats, have an open relationship , and not be into the idea of commitment.
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